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Celebrate Mother’s Day With the Joyful Heart Foundation
May 3rd


Honor your mom and the other important women in your life this Mother’s Day with a special gift from our Heartshop.
Just in time for Mother’s Day, Bloomingdale’s has teamed up with Joyful Heart to join us in saying NO MORE—our collective movement centered around the simple message that together we can end domestic violence and sexual assault. Available both in stores and online during the month of May, 10% from each sale of Bloomingdale’s exclusive Aqua charm bracelet and heart pendant will be donated to Joyful Heart in honor of Mother’s Day.
Plus, Mariska Hargitay and Bloomingdale’s have the ultimate gift for Law & Order: Special Victims Unit fans—tickets to an exclusive luncheon with Mariska in June at Bloomingdale’s famed Le Train Bleu Restaurant. The first 20 people to email bloomingdales@joyfulheartfoundation.org at 12 pm EST on Friday, May 3, 2013 with a bid of $1,500 will receive two tickets to this once-in-a-lifetime luncheon where 100% of the proceeds benefit Joyful Heart.
Our Heartshop’s additional gifts that give back include a selection of special items to help you find the perfect memento to say thank you.
Michael Stars
By popular demand, Michael Stars has created a brand new Joyful Heart tee, which features the empowering words “Joy,” “Heal” and “Heart” on the back of an ultra-soft supima cotton short sleeve tee. This relaxed fit top is available in both navy and grey with 25% of each sale benefiting Joyful Heart. $68
Me&Ro
Me&Ro’s Fearlessness Tag Pendant brings a graceful twist and a smaller size the classic dog tag design. It is engraved with the word “Fearlessness” to remind us that embracing fearlessness inspires one to approach life with an open heart and to be strong in the face of life’s adversities. The tag pendant is available with a silver or gold slate on chain or with a silver slate on cotton cord and 100% of net proceeds benefit Joyful Heart. $130 – $1,030
Tiny Pine Press
A handwritten note is always a cherished way to express your appreciation and thoughts. Gratitude Cards from Tiny Pine Press are beautifully crafted with a delicate Swarovski crystal on the front and 100% of proceeds are donated to Joyful Heart. $24
Fran’s Chocolates
Fran’s Chocolates’ “Box of Joy” is the perfect gift for those with a sweet tooth. This delicious assortment of Gray Salt Caramels in dark chocolate, Smoked Salt Caramels in milk chocolate and Dark Chocolate Hearts is wrapped in a beautiful brown linen box and 50% of net proceeds are donated to Joyful Heart. $50
You can also make a contribution to Joyful Heart in honor of that special person as a way to express gratitude from the bottom of your joyful heart.
Highlighting NO MORE day in the media
Mar 15th
As you likely know, Wednesday marked the public launch of NO MORE, a national movement to end domestic violence and sexual assault. The coverage of the event has been overwhelming, and we know many of you want to know more about the day’s events and this important movement. We’ve compiled some of the initial articles about the launch that we’ve been reading here at Joyful Heart so that you can read them too and get excited about coming together to say NO MORE to domestic violence and sexual assault.
For the launch of NO MORE, Joyful Heart staff members headed to Washington, D.C. with our founder, president and fearless leader Mariska. She stood with Vice President Joe Biden and Attorney General Eric Holder as they introduced a series of new grants to reduce victims of domestic violence-related homicides. Check out those NO MORE pins on them!
While Vice President Biden spoke about the necessity for grants to fund programs to support survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault, mark. Brand Ambassador Ashley Greene took the stand to address Congress and announced survey results from the NO MORE Study on teen dating violence, funded by the Avon Foundation:
The team then whisked off to the National Press Club, where Mariska had the honor of being the headlining speaker for their luncheon series, and was supported by Sarah Tofte, Maile Zambuto and Lendon Ebbels. Watch her dynamic and engaging speech below:
- Press.org -watch the speech here!
- Washington Examiner
- Houston Chronicle
- The Patch
In addition to introducing NO MORE to the media, the JHF team was there with Kym Worthy, super-prosecutor from Detroit, to help advocate for ending the backlog of rape kits in Detroit and all across the country:
Lastly, from our home bases all over the country, NO MORE partners contributed to a Live Blog to chronicle the events, pictures and shed light about the issues all day. If you missed the action on NO MORE Day, take a look back here:
Stay tuned for a first-hand account of the day from one of our D.C. JHF team members!
Tomorrow We Say NO MORE
Mar 13th
We at Joyful Heart are thrilled to be a part of NO MORE Day, happening tomorrow, March 13. This day marks the public launch of NO MORE, the nation’s first unifying awareness symbol to end domestic violence and sexual assault.
It’s been nearly a week sincethe President signed the Violence Against Women Act into law, the nation’s cornerstone response to domestic violence and sexual assault. Yet it was over 400 days since it had expired, leaving the resources that protect victims and organizations that prevent violence and abuse in limbo from October 2011 to February of this year.
It marks four days since people across the globe celebrated International Women’s Day and a century since this celebration first began. Yet one in three women across the world experience violence in their lifetimes—rape, assault or abuse, including those who live right here in the United States.
Today, in communities across the country, advocates will join forces to address the need to end domestic violence and sexual assault by launching NO MORE, the first overarching symbol that is bringing together all people in our society to end domestic violence and sexual assault.
We invite you to join us—from wherever you are in the country—to help launch NO MORE and participate in one of the most concerted and collaborative efforts to end domestic violence and sexual assault.
Regardless of where you are located, you can follow along with NO MORE Day activities and updates at our online liveblog here: www.scribblelive.com/Event/NO_MORE_Day.
We’ll be using the NO MORE symbol, helping to release critical research on bystanding and tweeting along with @NOMOREorg, actress and advocate @Mariska and many, many more of our partners. Please join us.
WHAT IS NO MORE?
You’ve likely seen the pink breast cancer ribbon or the red AIDS ribbon. NO MORE is a groundbreaking new symbol designed to transform our response to domestic violence and sexual assault, end the stigma, shame and isolation, galvanize millions into action and radically increase the awareness of domestic violence and sexual assault everywhere.
WHAT IS NO MORE DAY?
On March 13, NO MORE Day, thousands of advocates and supporters across the country will unite to officially launch NO MORE.
WHY NO MORE?
Domestic violence and sexual assault are not easy to talk about, although they impact millions of men, women and children every year. Because of the stigma and shame, these issues often remain hidden in our society. NO MORE seeks to bring domestic violence and sexual assault into the national spotlight to generate more attention, more resources and more action to prevent them. NO MORE aims to empower bystanders of domestic violence and sexual assault in every community to break the silence around these issues and get involved.
WAYS TO TAKE ACTION:
- KNOW MORE. Learn the signs of domestic violence and listen without judgment to victims/survivors of sexual assault. Get the facts and know the resources available.
- Say NO MORE. Break the silence. Speak out. Seek help when you see this problem or harassment of any kind in your family, your community, your workplace or school.
- Share NO MORE. Share the NO MORE symbol with everyone you know. Facebook it. Tweet it. Pin it. Instagram it. Email it. Wear it. Help to increase awareness about the extent of domestic violence and sexual assault. Visit the NO MORE Shop at nomore.org.
- Ensure NO MORE. Get involved. Volunteer in your community, or donate to a local, state or national domestic violence or sexual assault organization.
To help elevate this conversation even more, we invite you to participate in the NO MORE Day Thunderclap, a social media tool that allows everyone who signs up to share a tweet or a Facebook post all at once. By lending your voice today—and 140 characters—to our Thunderclap, you can help make sure our message of ending domestic violence and sexual assault gets heard loud and clear on March 13.
On Wednesday at 3pm ET, NO MORE will host a special Twitter chat about NO MORE, these issues and the many ways you can take action. We’ll be tweeting along during this chat too, along with Mariska. No matter where you are, we welcome you to join by following us and the #NOMOREday hashtag.
OTHER THINGS TO DO ON NO MORE DAY:
- Request the NO MORE Toolkit at nomore.org to get the symbol and start using it.
- Start following NO MORE on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram.
- Take a picture of how you’re using NO MORE in your community, or tell us why you say NO MORE. Share photos on Instagram, Twitter or Facebook using the hashtag #NOMOREday
- Share this with five friends!
Events will be taking place nationwide in celebration of NO MORE Day, including:
- Washington Wizards Game (open to the public) – Come support NO MORE, get free products and see the debut of our new PSA (Purchase tickets, here. Promo code: nomore)
- Invisible War Screenings (open to the public) – Find one near you.
- A National Press Club Luncheon Hosted by Founder and President of the Joyful Heart Foundation, Actress Mariska Hargitay in Washington D.C. (sold out, but you can watch it live on press.org at 12:30pm EST.
- Congressional Briefing on Capitol Hill, Washington D.C. (Dirksen Senate Office Building, Room 538 at 9 am EST. Please RSVP with your name and number of guests) – Results of the new Avon Foundation-funded NO MORE Study: Teens and Young Adults on Dating Violence and Sexual Assault, to be presented by Ashley Greene, actress and ambassador for Avon.
International Women’s Day 2013: Honoring the Women Building a Better Future
Mar 8th
Today on International Women’s Day, we pause to reflect on the current status of women worldwide and honor those among us who fearlessly stand up to empower women everywhere.
Globally, up to six out of every ten women experience physical and/or sexual violence in their lifetime. This is not just a statistic—this number reflects the lives and futures of mothers, daughters, best friends, sisters and colleagues that have been altered forever.
International Women’s Day has brought citizens across the world together since 1908 to celebrate women’s achievements and to openly discuss what needs to be done to build a better future. Women and men worldwide join hands in paying homage to the amazing leaders who helped pave the way to global equality. We honor the movers and shakers who will help women achieve and sustain full rights and we marvel at the accomplishments we as a society have achieved since the inception of International Women’s Day. It is a day dedicated to standing together as we acknowledge that although we have made leaps and bounds, we have so much further to go until women achieve true equality in all corners of the world.
Today, we reflect, open up our hearts to one another and acknowledge members of the international community who have made significant accomplishments on behalf of women worldwide. We would like to recognize six amazing leaders who have and continue to trail blaze on behalf of women on each and every continent.
These leaders have committed their lives to protecting women’s rights and to lowering the number of those affected by sexual violence. They serve as an inspiration not only to us working in the field, but also to women and young girls everywhere. By shedding light in their own communities and on a global platform, they gracefully and fearlessly stand up to say NO MORE to violence and yes to equality.
Africa: Leymah Gbowee, Liberia
“I wish for a better life. I wish for food for my children. I wish that sexual abuse and exploitation in schools would stop. This is the dream of the African girl.”
Leymah Gbowee is the Executive Director of the Women’s Peace and Security Network and is internationally acclaimed for her work on behalf of women in Africa. As the 2011 recipient of the Nobel Peace Prize, Gbowee is most recognized for advocacy on behalf of women in conflict zones, whom often bear the brunt of extreme sexual violence.
In her youth, Gbowee was a victim of the Liberian civil war that took 250,000 lives and destroyed the country she loved. As a survivor of intimate partner violence and a young, newly single mother of four, she sought asylum in a refugee camp and was forced to send her children away to Ghana to ensure their safety. She began training and working as a social worker during the first conflict and eventually had a vision that lead to the formation of the Women of Liberia Mass Action for Peace movement.
The Women of Liberia Mass Action for Peace staged weekly interreligious pray-ins and nonviolent protests against the brutal war at local markets. They protested all forms of violence, but the violence against women and children was so rampant at the time that protecting themselves and their children in particular fueled Gbowee and the movement’s passion. The women protested regularly until peace talks were reinstated at the end of the second conflict in 2003, and the group’s enormous efforts are largely credited for bringing peace and stability to the region. Gbowee was also an influential force in getting Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, her fellow 2011 Nobel Peace Prize Recipient, as the first woman elected as President in Liberia.
“I don’t feel like I’ve done anything extraordinary but take my little light and shine it in darkness,” said Gbowee, in an interview with the LA Times, “The journey has been tough; the road has been rough. But it’s been rewarding.”
To watch Leymah Gbowee discuss the impact of unlocking women’s potential, click here.
South America: Michelle Bachelet, Chile
“I know from my own experience that there is no limit to what women can do.”
Michelle Bachelet is the Under-Secretary General and Executive Director of UN Women, or UNIFEM, the United Nations’ organization for the empowerment of women worldwide. She was formerly the President of Chile and is formerly trained as a pediatrician.
Dr. Bachelet is a long-time champion of women’s rights. As the first female President of Chile, she has fought and advocated for gender equality and women’s empowerment throughout her entire career, from organizing small protests in University to her leading role as Executive Director of UN Women. She experienced extreme torture during the Chilean military dictatorship, and since has been an outspoken advocate against violence. As President, she advocated for reallocating revenues to spend on desperately needed social protection for Chilean women and children. She used a portion of the money to fund research and development on public health issues relating to violence. Other initiatives that came from this fund included tripling the number of free early child-care centers for low-income families and building 3,500 child-care centers around the country.
Dr. Bachelet was elected to the head of UN Women upon its inception in 2010. She immediately instated initiatives to support and protect women worldwide, including naming the end violence against women and girls as one of the main priorities of the commission. Launched by UN Women in November 2012, the “COMMIT” project calls on leaders worldwide to fulfill their promise and take a stand by making new and concrete national commitments to end violence against women and girls.
During the past week, Dr. Bachelet presided over the largest international meeting on ending violence against women, the United Nation’s Commission on the Status of Women (CSW57). Representatives from 85 different countries, countless NGOs and media partners listened as she spoke about initiatives to protect women and girls, and declared this the priority of the UN Women and its partners in the coming year.
“We are here in this Commission on the Status of Women because every person has the right to live free of violence and discrimination. The world can no longer afford the costs of violence against women and girls, the social and economic costs and the costs in deep human pain and suffering,” said Under-Secretary Bachelet in her opening statement.
We are so grateful to Michelle Bachelet for being an incredible voice, example and ally to the cause, and for spreading light into these issues worldwide.
To watch Michelle Bachelet discuss International Women’s day, click here.
Europe: Akima Thomas, United Kingdom
Akima Thomas is a leader in the research field of domestic violence and women’s empowerment. As the clinical director of the Women and Girls Network in the United Kingdom, she has pioneered studies about holistic treatment and spoken internationally on behalf of women who experienced trauma. She has presented and worked to spread the Women and Girls Network’s healing model all across the world.
Thomas’s organization, Women and Girls Network, incorporates a holistic method to trauma. By recognizing incidents of abuse are “injuries that bruise the sou,.” the organization has worked for 25 years to develop a curriculum integrating mind, body and spirit into the recovery process. In addition to holistic healing, Thomas advocates for proper training for healers and law enforcement officials so that they can listen and truly respond sensitively to a survivor’s needs.
Most recently, Ms. Thomas was a featured speaker at the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women. Her presentation argued that violence against women is not a gendered issue, but rather a human rights issue engrained in our society. She presents the issues from a 360-degree perspective—everything from the financial burden of domestic violence on society to the immeasurable impact on the female gender’s sense of autonomy, liberty and ability to achieve our full potential.
By proving we can no longer afford to be silent, Akima Thomas serves as an extraordinary role model for girls worldwide.
To watch Akima Thomas discuss violence against women and girls at the CSW57, click here.
North America: Eve Ensler, USA
“You have to give to the world the thing that you want the most, in order to fix the broken parts inside you.”
Eve Ensler is an American activist who has been pushing the envelopes and rejecting the stereotypical female norm since she first wrote and performed her award-winning play, The Vagina Monologues, in 1996. She has since gone on to support a wide variety of female empowerment initiatives before founding her own organization, V-Day, in 1998.
V-Day began as a way for productions of The Vagina Monologues to fundraise for anti-violence organizations across the United States. Funds raised from shows went to organizations working stop violence against women and girls, including rape, battery, incest, female genital mutilation (FGM), and sex slavery. Joyful Heart is grateful to have been one of the many recipients of a V-Day gift. These small fundraisers gained huge traction, and it has since grown into an organic global movement to create films, campaigns and movements on behalf of women everywhere. To date, V-day has fundraised over $85 million to end violence against women.
The movement recently culminated in the 15th anniversary of the organization’s founding for the launch of ONE BILLION RISING. With Ensler at the helm, the concept began with the fact that according to UN Statistics, 1 billion women will be beaten or raped in their lifetime worldwide. She invited women on February 14, 2013 to walk out of their jobs, schools, offices and homes and dance, walk or rise up in the streets. The day happened with enormous success, with participants dancing and speaking out from 205 countries across the world.
As a trail-blazer, breaker of taboos and a guiding voice in ending the silence, we are profoundly moved and grateful for Eve’s amazing work to end domestic violence and sexual assault for women everywhere.
To listen to Eve Ensler speak out about hate and violence against women, click here.
Australia and the Pacific Region: Joanna Hayter, Australia
“Working with women is central to what drives me and motivates me as a leader. Gender equality is a human right and central to economic and human development but I address this through a feminist view of humanitarianism.”
Joanna Hayter is the Executive Director of International Women’s Development Agency, based in Melbourne, Australia. She heads up the only international development agency in Australia that focuses entirely on women and girls.
Ms. Hayter is a trained nurse and holds a Masters degree in Human Resource Development. She has worked for international aid and development agencies for 25 years, with a special focus on public health access initiatives for women and children. Her programs and experiences have helped countless women and children access public health services in lieu of traumatic violence.
At the helm of the International Women’s Development Agency, Ms. Hayter has been hugely influential in the region in bringing attention to local issues such as abuse amongst aboriginal women, empowerment of battered partners and full political and civil participation of women in society. The IWDA works and partners with organizations all across Southeast Asia and the Pacific Region to bring programs to women who would previously not have received these life-changing resources. In addition to their own multitude of programs, IWDA collaborates on specific projects including building a safe house for abused Cambodian women, female mentoring programs to keep girls in school and pursuing careers and producing a documentary about women’s role in peace building in Papua New Guinea.
As International Women’s Day approached, IWDA has partnered with Nicholas Kristof’s organization Half the Sky to put on a concert featuring Australian talent. 100% of the proceeds from the show will go to benefit IWDA’s partners in the region.
Joanna’s out-of-the-box approach to fundraising and partnering with small organizations to support women across Southeast Asia and the Pacific region is so inspirational to us here at Joyful Heart, and we admire her deeply for her long-standing service and commitment to supporting women.
To read more about the work the International Women’s Development Agency does in the Southeast Asian and Pacific Region, click here.
Asia: Reecha Upadhyay, India
“We can’t be on the streets physically every day, but surely there’s something we can do. I felt the need to continue the movement to demand safety for women.”
Based out of New Delhi, Reecha Upadhyay is a filmmaker and co-founder of the Jamun Collective. She works to shed light and document humanitarian issues all across the globe, and most recently was one of five women who organized the “One Billion Rising: India” flash dance mob in New Delhi, India to protest sexual assault and violence against women.
This event took on special meaning in New Delhi, as it was the recent site of the brutal rape of a young student that garnered media attention all across the world. Ms. Upadhyay and her colleagues united thousands of Indians across the city to peacefully protest this and all other forms of violence against women via dance. They joined together to encourage women to flood the streets and claim their rights to march, dance and sing in the streets without being fearful for their safety.
Prior to the day of action, Ms. Upadhyay traveled around and documented local women “rising up” to combat domestic violence and sexual assault by video. By filming simple stories, she provided a medium for survivors and those affected by violence to speak up and have a voice in the movement. Her promotional videos featuring young Indian women now have over 40,000 views on YouTube, and were a huge part of garnering buzz around the event. Ms. Upadhyay’s short video and her group were featured in The New York Times for their significance and impact.
Formerly based in New York, Reecha has a long history entrenched in human rights issues. She has partnered with the United Nations Development Program on conflict and disaster prevention and recovery in Geneva, South Sudan and New Delhi. She has also been based in Thailand and Nepal. She implemented “Stop Rape Now” campaign and works to develop communications strategies for important issues.
Through telling stories of those touched by violence and giving young women everywhere a peaceful medium to exercise their joyful right to dance and sing without fear, Reecha Upadhyay is an exemplary role model of positive activism and we are grateful for the addition of her voice to the global cause of ending violence against women.
To read about Reecha Upadhyay’s involvement with One Billion Rising and watch her videos, click here.
1in6 Thursday: Restrictive Residency Rules and the Illusion of Public Safety
Mar 7th
Patti Giggans, Executive Director of Peace Over Violence, discusses the negative effects of increasing restrictive residency rules for sex offenders while reducing their access to resources, monitoring and increasing the risk of recidivism.
The latest strategy to restrict where convicted sex offenders live is to create parks where none exist to force registered sex offenders to move out of a neighborhood. The City of Los Angeles plans to build three pocket parks in the communities of Harbor Gateway and Wilmington. California state law prohibits sex offenders from living within 2,000 feet of a park, playground school or a daycare center. Some states restrict living within 1,000 feet or near certain bus stops. There are similar residence restrictive laws in every state along with sex offender databases and community notification of where offenders live, known as Megan’s Laws. The unintended result of super-restrictive sex offender zoning makes it impossible for sex offenders to find stable housing and forces them to cluster and crowd together in motels and apartment buildings, or sometimes under bridges creating homelessness, often away from family or other potentially positive supports. There is concern that these over-restrictive policies can backfire and actually increase recidivism.
Located in southern Los Angeles, Harbor Gateway, a community of about 40,000 people, has one of the city’s highest concentrations of registered sex offenders: 86 registered offenders live in a 13-block area. The park will be created in a space the equivalent of a backyard on a grassy corner large enough to fit a jungle gym and a couple of benches. The park is being explicitly created to restrict offenders from congregating in the area not necessarily to create green space for kids to play. No one can fault the community for its concern for safety especially of its children or blame its civic leadership for wanting to do something about it. Restrictive living and working rules keep multiplying with the goal of public safety. But do these living restrictions improve public safety or exacerbate the potential for re-offending? As there are fewer and fewer places for offenders to live and work they will continue to resort to clustering or worse: go underground. Creating housing instability can limit employment opportunities and access to social services and social support. Visibility, surveillance, accountability, treatment and support are some of the protective factors that can help an offender stay on the path of non-offending and reduce recidivism.
Convicted sex offenders and registrants are all painted with the same brush of pariah and monster, so it is very challenging for communities to think beyond the criminal justice lens to include public health approaches. But might we be risking being blinded by the illusion of safety when we don’t explore the complexity and the diversity of these offenders and call for research on what really works best. There is little room for political leadership to ask these important questions. Forcing offenders to go missing or go underground by promoting overly restrictive residence and employment restrictions may very well be one of those illusions of public safety that can backfire and create more risk and increase recidivism.
Patti Giggans is the Executive Director of Peace Over Violence. Peace Over Violence is dedicated to building healthy relationships, families and communities free from sexual, domestic and interpersonal violence. She is also the Vice-President of the Board of Directors for 1in6.
The mission of 1in6 is to help men who have had unwanted or abusive sexual experiences in childhood live healthier, happier lives.
1in6′s mission also includes serving family members, friends and partners by providing information and support resources on the web and in the community.
Joyful Heart and 1in6 invite you to visit 1in6.org for info, options and hope, and to learn more about our partnership and Engaging Men initiative at men.joyfulheartfoundation.
The views expressed above are not necessarily those of the Joyful Heart Foundation or 1in6.
Senate Passes VAWA Reauthorization
Feb 14th
After several days of debate, the Senate voted on Tuesday to reauthorize and strengthen the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) in a 78 to 22 vote. The reauthorization includes protections for LGBT and Native American survivors. Several amendments that would have stripped those protections from the Act were rejected in the days before the vote.
The legislation includes the SAFER Act as well, which provides state and local governments with funding to audit the untested rape kits in their facilities and creates a national registry to help track those audits. It also amends current law to require a greater percentage of federal grant money be spent directly on analyzing untested rape kits.
Joyful Heart extends our deepest gratitude to the Senators who voted in favor of VAWA and moving forward our country’s efforts to end domestic violence, sexual assault, dating violence and stalking. VAWA provides critical funding and support for domestic violence hotlines and shelters, rape crisis centers, prevention programs, legal services for victims and training for law enforcement and prosecutors.
From President Obama:
Today the Senate passed a strong bipartisan bill to reauthorize and strengthen the Violence Against Women Act. This important step shows what we can do when we come together across party lines to take up a just cause. The bill passed by the Senate will help reduce homicides that occur from domestic violence, improve the criminal justice response to rape and sexual assault, address the high rates of dating violence experienced by young women, and provide justice to the most vulnerable among us. I want to thank Senator Leahy and his colleagues from both sides of the aisle for the leadership they have shown on behalf of victims of abuse. It’s now time for the House to follow suit and send this bill to my desk so that I can sign it into law.
From Vice President Biden:
Today, the Senate passed the Violence Against Women Act with overwhelming bipartisan support. This law has been incredibly effective and I hope the House will vote without delay to renew the law so that we can continue to assist victims of domestic violence and sexual assault and hold offenders accountable for their crimes.
Delay isn’t an option when three women are still killed by their husbands or boyfriends every day. Delay isn’t an option when countless women still live in fear of abuse, and when one in five have been victims of rape. This issue should be beyond debate – the House should follow the Senate’s lead and pass the Violence Against Women Act right away. This is not a Democratic or Republican issue – it’s an issue of justice and compassion.
Renewing Our Commitment to VAWA in 2013
Jan 18th
When the U.S. Congress enacted the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) in 1994, it revolutionized community and government responses to domestic violence and sexual assault across the nation. Since that time, each reauthorization of VAWA has expanded its focus—to include dating violence and stalking, to create and enhance prevention and education programs, to train and coordinate law enforcement, courts, prosecutors and victim services in their response to violence against women and children.
Unfortunately, Congress again made history in 2012 when it failed—for the first time ever—to pass the latest reauthorization of VAWA. With the expiration of the reauthorization bill, funding for existing programs and services for survivors of violence will continue under the 2005 reauthorization. This funding arrangement will make it difficult for many organizations to maintain their current levels of programming and services, especially with ever-tightening national, state and local budgets. The expiration of the 2012 reauthorization also represents a missed opportunity to make VAWA more comprehensive, including provisions for housing, campus-based services and greater protections for certain vulnerable communities.
1in6 Thursday: New Year, New World
Jan 3rd
We begin this New Year with a much greater awareness within our communities than just a year ago about the frequency at which boys are subjected to unwanted or abusive sexual experiences. But perhaps even more importantly in terms of healing for those boys—and the men they become—in the past year, we’ve seen men speaking more openly about their efforts to overcome the harmful impacts of those childhood experiences. Every word that diminishes the sense of isolation and shame about abusive experiences, which many men have silently carried through their adult lives, potentially opens a door to recovery. As we enter 2013, we have a very different context for addressing sexual abuse of boys than ever before.
The courageous testimony from the men who were abused by Penn State football coach Jerry Sandusky, though painful to hear, opened a floodgate of disclosures from men and women abused by individuals in positions of power – coaches, teachers, clergy and others. In recognition of the failures it made in addressing the clear signs of Sandusky’s abuse of boys in his care, Penn State has undertaken an intensive self assessment and consulted with numerous experts to determine the best ways to prevent future abuse and to support those who have already experienced abuse.
Even the NCAA has initiated a widespread effort to address the impact and prevention of sexual abuse through a $50 million fine imposed on Penn State.
The public’s response to revelations about decades of sexual abuse reports covered up by the Boy Scouts of America might have been very different without the heightened awareness brought by the media coverage of the Sandusky trial. Again, the realization for each of the boys who was abused that he is not one, but instead, one of many, will make it easier to acknowledge the experience and to seek help for any negative consequences.
Within the same context, Major League knuckle-ball pitcher and 2012 Cy Young winner R.A. Dickey wrote about his recovery from childhood sexual abuse in his autobiography “Wherever I Wind Up: My Quest for Truth, Authenticity and the Perfect Knuckleball.” His willingness to include those experiences in his life story and his reflections on the success and peace that he brought to his life, in part by finally facing the painful memories about his childhood, have, no doubt, been an inspiration to many.
Another memoir published in 2012, “Nice to Meet Me” by Chris Carlton, walks readers through the first 15 months of his healing journey, in a clear, insightful, humble and humorous style.
And Dr. Howard Fradkin’s newly released book on recovery “Joining Forces, Empowering Male Survivors to Thrive” is written with the goal of providing tools for male survivors of sexual victimization to develop skills they can use to overcome the effects of trauma and learn to thrive in their lives. In the book, Fradkin describes his own process of recovery from childhood sexual abuse and uses the voices of 20 other men who have worked through their healing.
So let’s hope that when we look back on 2013, we’ll be able to see it as the tipping point year, when individual’s, families’ and communities’ support for men’s willingness to seek help to recover from unwanted or abusive childhood sexual experiences became the norm, rather than the exception.
Peter Pollard is the Training and Outreach Director for 1in6, Inc. Peter previously worked for 15 years as a state, child-protection social worker and was the Public Education director at Stop It Now! Since 2003, he has served as the Western Massachusetts coordinator for SNAP (Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests) and also does work for a Certified Batterers Intervention Program.
The mission of 1in6 is to help men who have had unwanted or abusive sexual experiences in childhood live healthier, happier lives.
1in6′s mission also includes serving family members, friends and partners by providing information and support resources on the web and in the community.
Joyful Heart and 1in6 invite you to visit 1in6.org for info, options and hope, and to learn more about our partnership and Engaging Men initiative at men.joyfulheartfoundation.
The views expressed above are not necessarily those of the Joyful Heart Foundation or 1in6.










