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There Is No Excuse—On Denim Day or Any Day

As you know, April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. And this year, Joyful Heart partnered with dozens of organizations, community-based programs and government officials to turn towards the issue of sexual assault in New York City with Denim Day.

Denim Day is an award-winning annual sexual violence prevention and education campaign started by our Los Angeles-based partner, Peace Over Violence. It grew out of a 1990s Italian Supreme Court case in which the Court’s decision overturned a rape conviction because the victim wore tight jeans. The judges reasoned the victim’s tight jeans meant that she had to have helped her assailant remove them, implying consent. People all over the world were outraged, and wearing jeans became an international symbol of protest against erroneous and destructive attitudes and myths surrounding sexual assault. Last year, more than 2.6 million people participated in Denim Day throughout the U.S.

This year is New York’s third year participating in Denim Day campaign and Joyful Heart is so proud to have joined the coalition. In addition to activities, workshops and programs happening throughout all five boroughs for youth and adults on Denim Day, we held a press conference on the steps of City Hall yesterday to kick off our coalition’s Denim Day events.

Manhattan Borough President Scott M. Stringer kicks off the Denim Day NYC 2012 Press Conference.

In addition to our Denim Day organizers the New York City Alliance Against Sexual Assault, Manhattan Borough President Scott M. Stringer, the St. Luke’s Roosevelt Crime Victims Treatment Center and Start Strong Bronx, we were joined by advocates, youth government officials and individuals who filled the steps of City Hall to bring the message to New york that there is no excuse and never an invitation to rape.

We’re sharing that message nationally too. Yesterday, Mariska penned an op-ed in the Huffington Post with Denim Day founder Patti Giggans. From their article:

The way our society thinks about rape and receives survivors is not only tragic, it’s dangerous. Fearing that they won’t be believed, survivors are less likely to report their rapes, which means rapists stay out of jail, which means they are free to rape again.

Denim Day is about coming together as a community that has no tolerance for sexual violence, a community that commits its resources—intellectual, financial, emotional—to responding differently to survivors and making their healing a priority.

To read the entire article, click here.

We and our partners are also sharing this message in social media (that would be #denimday, if you’re on Twitter) in hospitals and rape crisis programs, offices, schools and colleges throughout the country. Together, we can change these harmful victim-blaming attitudes about sexual violence. We can change the way we think about, respond to and support survivors of sexual assault.

If you are wearing denim today, please be sure you have registered your support on www.denimdayusa.org. We invite you to submit photos of yourself in your denim to blog@joyfulheartfoundation.org and share what you’re doing for Denim Day in the comments below.

Get Involved in our Big Day: Watch SVU and Learn More about our Engaging Men Initiative

Dear Joyful Heart Community,

Today is a very big day for Joyful Heart and we are so excited to share an update with you.

Mariska Hargitay, Joyful Heart’s founder and president and star of Law & Order: Special Victims Unit, was on the TODAY Show yesterday morning to discuss a very important episode of SVU–one that addresses the often ignored effects of male sexual abuse. Basketball superstars Chris Bosh and Carmelo Anthony, as well as Mehcad Brooks (True Blood, Necessary Roughness) and Dan Lauria (The Wonder Years), guest starred to help share this important message.

You can catch Mariska’s interview on MSNBC.com and a preview of the episode on our website. The full episode is now available on NBC’s website.

While we know that women and girls represent the majority of sexual violence, we know that men are affected as well. They are victims of witnesses to violence. And while the vast majority of men are not perpetrators themselves, most perpetrators are men.

This episode is groundbreaking for SVU and for the movement to end violence. SVU has never told such a powerful story about the effects of sexual violence on men. It’s important to shine a light on this issue. Because men should not be relegated to sidelines as survivors of violence or supporters of the movement to end it. With this episode, in partnership with our friends at 1in6 and A CALL TO MEN, Joyful Heart is launching a new Engaging Men initiative.

 

We invite any man who is a survivor of an unwanted or abusive sexual experience to get the support and resources they need–and deserve–to heal. It’s estimated that one in six–19 million males in the United States–have had an unwanted or abusive sexual experience in childhood.

We also invite all men to be a part of the movement to end violence. Preventing and one day ending violence takes all members of our society and men play a crucial role in bringing us closer to a world without sexual assault, domestic violence and child abuse.

Visit us online to learn more: men.joyfulheartfoundation.org and be sure to check out last night’s Law & Order: Special Victims Unit online.

Expanding New York’s DNA Databank Would Bring Healing and Justice to Survivors of Crime

Yesterday, representatives from Joyful Heart, including myself, went to Albany to advocate for the expansion of New York State’s DNA Databank to include samples from all convicted offenders. Right now in New York, state law only allows for collection of DNA from offenders convicted in just 48% of all crimes.

We went up with a statewide coalition of advocates, law enforcement, survivors and policymakers. We met with representatives in both political parties in the Senate and Assembly, as well as members of the press.

We went with a simple message: pass all crimes DNA legislation.

We know how important DNA can be in bringing about justice for survivors of sexual assault, and how important justice can be in the healing process. Since New York’s DNA Databank was established in 1996, thousands of crimes—including 3,353 sexual assaults and 800 murders—have been solved using evidence in the Databank and many, many more have been prevented. Solving each one of these cases brings a measure of healing to survivors and their families.

At a press conference held at the Capitol and lead by Linda Fairstein, a national expert on criminal justice issues and Joyful Heart founding board member, two courageous survivors spoke about their experience waiting for the justice and living in fear. One of those survivors, Cassandra, lived through a horrific assault in her home in 2006. Though her attacker had been convicted of a low-level offense in 2003, it did not meet the threshold to compel him to give a DNA sample so he was able to go on to attack a half a dozen other innocent people with impunity before he was finally convicted of an assault which required him to submit DNA, linking him to the terrible acts of violence he inflicted on Cassandra and other victims.

He took more than my personal property and jewelry. He took my peace of mind and security of my own home, throwing off his bloody clothes with literally throngs of police, helicopters and dogs at his back. My peace of mind remained shattered for 14 long months until his arrest in October of 2007. The tragedy is that the horrors this man went on to commit against other innocent people during that 14 months never had to happen… He wasn’t in the DNA Databank, so he remained free.

We’re not asking a lot of our legislators. The DNA database has never been compromised. No information from it will be used except to match suspects to crime scenes. So many horrible crimes can be stopped before they happen if we take a DNA sample from everyone convicted of a crime… Just please, do it: pass this law.

Lawmakers listened to our message and the stories of Cassandra and other survivors yesterday. Coalitions of victims’ groups from throughout the state have put their support behind the bill, as have New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg and Governor Andrew Cuomo. In a letter address to Majority Senator Leader Dean Skelos and Speaker of the Assembly Sheldon Silver, the Governor wrote:

Together we share the sober responsibility of keeping New Yorkers safe from harm and ensuring justice for all of us. No single tool has been more important than DNA in making certain that we discharge this responsibility fairly, swiftly and effectively…The time has come to say simply: Yes. We know what works. Now, let’s do what works.

We are hopeful that members of Senate and Assembly will pass this legislation and that the survivors and families of victims whose cases remained unsolved will not have to wait for the healing and justice this legislation would provide.

Mariska Hargitay, Joyful Heart’s founder and president, wanted to be with us but was unable to attend. She said in a statement, “I am proud to stand with survivors, advocates and members of the criminal justice community to support the expansion of the New York State DNA Databank to send a powerful message to survivors: ‘We hear you. You have suffered enough. Your healing—and pursuit of justice—are our priorities.’”

You can read more about this issue and our efforts in various news outlets, including The New York Times, the New York Post, the Times Union, and the New York Daily News. And be sure to check back here for how you can help our efforts.

Maile and Mariska

JHF ED Honored Among 21 Leaders for the 21st Century by Women’s eNews

Several of us at Joyful Heart had the honor and privilege of attending the Women’s eNews 21 Leaders for the 21st Century Annual Gala on Tuesday evening as guests of Mariska Hargitay, Joyful Heart’s President & Founder, and Maile Zambuto, our Executive Director, who was honored as one of the 21 Leaders.

Women’s eNews is a valuable source of information, not just for women, but for anyone who cares about the issues that affect women and, by extension, our entire society. In January, the online news source named Maile one of its 21 Leaders for the 21st Century. Maile was honored for her innovative and compassionate work helping victims of abuse. She stood in the company of 19 other women and one man who embody, as Women’s eNews put it,  “the creativity, dedication, resourcefulness and commitment that it takes to improve the lives of women and girls.”

“The women’s movement is far from over and this room is such a testament to how strong and vibrant it is.”
–Susan King, Vice President of the Carnegie Corporation of New York and the evening’s emcee

For those of us that get to work with Maile, this recognition from the field came as no surprise. Under Maile’s leadership, Joyful Heart has served thousands of survivors of violence and abuse and reached hundreds of thousands more through public education and awareness initiatives using film, print and social media. The organization developed the Heal the Healers program, which aims to support and restore the professionals who serve survivors through education about both the effects of vicarious trauma and also sustainable self-care practices. Joyful Heart has also drawn national attention to the backlog of hundreds of thousands of untested rape kits in the United States.

Maile Zambuto and Mariska Hargitay. Photo Courtesy of Women's eNews.

Dan Rather presents Maile with her award.

The Joyful Heart table. Photo courtesy of Women's eNews.

Among the other 20 leaders honored was Pamela Shifman of Novo Foundation, who, as the director of Initiatives for Women and Girls, has shaped the Foundation’s work to empower the world’s most marginalized adolescent girls to be agents of change. There was also Robina Niaz, founder of the Turning Point for Women and Families, the first and only organization in New York city dedicated to addressing domestic violence in the Muslim community. Jimmie Briggs was the single male honoree of the evening, but a true testament to just how big and positive of a role men have in this movement. As a reporter, he visited the Democratic Republic of the Congo, where he interviewed a girl who was gang raped twice in one day. He was so moved by this and other experiences witnessing rape and mutilation in war-torn countries that he founded the Man-Up Campaign with the mission to stop violence against women and girls worldwide through its network of young people.

Maile’s award was presented to her by news anchor and fellow advocate, Dan Rather. As she gave her acceptance speech to the packed room, she was surrounded by Mariska, many members of the staff of Joyful Heart and her husband, Jason. She shared:

I started in this work nearly twenty years ago for very personal reasons–searching for a way to make sense of all I had suffered and to find meaning in my experience as a survivor. And what I have found over time–I have settled into my work and dedicated myself to serve simply because it’s the right thing to do. I feel blessed every day to do this work and it is a privilege to do it with my team at Joyful Heart….

It’s evenings like this and rituals like this award that allow us to reflect on all we have accomplished, all who have come before us, our many teachers and mentors, all the suffering we have witnessed and the progress. This moment also inspires us to recommit ourselves to all that’s left to do in our collective movements. So tonight, I re-commit myself to a shared vision of ending violence against women and children–not in my lifetime, but I hold it out as what we will work toward every day.

Congratulations to Maile and all of the other honorees!